Bitterness or Blessings?
Bitterness or Blessings? (4/21/2006 4:47:51 PM)
Isn't it amazing what happens when we open our hearts and forgive others?
Hello????
Yes, talking to YOU!!!!
The blessings that come back to us are truly amazing. If you don't know what I am talking about, maybe you should try a lesson in unconditional love and see where it gets you.
First forgive youself:
We are human, and we do make mistakes.
Stop beating yourself up over it.
Second forgive the person who has hurt you:
Don't just say you forgive them, mean it!!!!
The DEEP down inside forgiveness and tell them that you forgive them.
This might take a while to work up to... but you can do it!
Third once you have truly forgiven them:
Talk about the things that upset you, the things that hurt you.
This might take a while to work up to... too... but you can do it!
Fourth once you have talked about the past:
Let it go.
Once you let it go you will heal and along with healing will come the blessings.
If everyone practiced forgiveness and unconditional love we'd all be better off.
I personally feel these things helped me with my healing process from my divorce and from my health issues. Bitterness is like a cancer... it will eat you up inside until there is nothing left but misery.
The difference between the two???
YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT THE BITTERNESS!!!!!!!!!
YOU HAVE THE CONTROL OVER IT!!!
ES YOU!!!!
There seems to be many miserable people on this site. If you aren't happy with yourself... deep down inside happy, the solution isn't finding "the one" or someone to love. The solution is make yourself happy first then the rest of it will fall into place.
Why be miserable when you can be HAPPY?
Isn't it amazing what happens when we open our hearts and forgive others?
Hello????
Yes, talking to YOU!!!!
The blessings that come back to us are truly amazing. If you don't know what I am talking about, maybe you should try a lesson in unconditional love and see where it gets you.
First forgive youself:
We are human, and we do make mistakes.
Stop beating yourself up over it.
Second forgive the person who has hurt you:
Don't just say you forgive them, mean it!!!!
The DEEP down inside forgiveness and tell them that you forgive them.
This might take a while to work up to... but you can do it!
Third once you have truly forgiven them:
Talk about the things that upset you, the things that hurt you.
This might take a while to work up to... too... but you can do it!
Fourth once you have talked about the past:
Let it go.
Once you let it go you will heal and along with healing will come the blessings.
If everyone practiced forgiveness and unconditional love we'd all be better off.
I personally feel these things helped me with my healing process from my divorce and from my health issues. Bitterness is like a cancer... it will eat you up inside until there is nothing left but misery.
The difference between the two???
YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT THE BITTERNESS!!!!!!!!!
YOU HAVE THE CONTROL OVER IT!!!
ES YOU!!!!
There seems to be many miserable people on this site. If you aren't happy with yourself... deep down inside happy, the solution isn't finding "the one" or someone to love. The solution is make yourself happy first then the rest of it will fall into place.
Why be miserable when you can be HAPPY?
posted by makinitcount @ 1:10 PM
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